The ladies you ask (will you be my bridesmaid?) are your most important friends of all. Calling them on the phone or sending a text simply won’t cut it. You need a thoughtful and creative way to pop the question, but it doesn’t have to be expensive. From a piece of jewelry, to creating a special moment they will never forget, make sure your bridesmaids know how much you care that they will be apart of your special day.

Additionally, be sure to include a sweet note along with it. Remind them what your friendship means to you, that you can’t wait to cry over the dress together, taste the cake, choose the perfect bouquets and that you can’t imagine getting married without them.

5 WAYS TO ASK YOUR BESTIES OR MAID-OF-HONOR: WILL YOU BE MY BRIDESMAID?

5 WAYS TO ASK: WILL YOU BE MY BRIDESMAID?

CHAMPAGNE

Engagements are filled with champagne moments and this is one of the firsts of many to come. So I love the idea of incorporating a sparkling beverage into this special moment! There will be so many Pop Fizz Click moments so way not start with an adorable custom label on one of your favorite bottles? Also love this bridesmaid wine bag, flutes and this matching card for you to ask in a more meaningful way.

will you be my bridesmaid brunch

MINI PINATAS

If you want to create a real wow moment, have custom mini pinatas made and put their favorite candies along with the question inside. And don’t worry, you don’t have to wack them, these ones open easy so you can open them at a brunch. Plus they’ll make super cute Instagram photos before the ladies open them! One of my favorite Maids & Margs parties was this one.

bridesmaids toasting in robes

JEWELRY

A bride asking (will you be my bridesmaid?) will never look shinier than with a piece of jewelry. Whether you want them to have matching pearl earrings for the wedding day (loving this pair and these ones), or you simply want to gift her something she would love, every girl loves getting jewelry. Trust me she will be thrilled! And this can last her long after your I do’s!

custom bridesmaids gift box

A FABULOUS GIFT

Make your own very own DIY project with the products you know she will love. Putting it all together in a sweet little box with a card telling you you need her is perfect. Don’t want the DIY headache? I love these custom gift boxes!

confetti balloons to ask will you be my bridesmaid

BALLOONS

One of my favorite ideas is to create an experience they will never forget. And what better way to do that than with popping balloons with confetti with the question inside?! If your ladies live far apart, I love the way these ones are packaged (also like this one and this one). If your bridesmaids can all get together, I love the idea of hosting a brunch and having them all pop their balloons together.